Stop using bullet points. Number your lists.
Every day, somewhere in a Slack message, an email, or a doc, someone writes a list of points with little round bullets in front of them. And every day, somewhere else, someone replies: "Wait, which one are you talking about — the second one or the third?"
This is a small problem that compounds into a large one. There's a fix, and it has existed since at least the ancient Greeks: number your lists.
Same content. But now look what becomes possible in the right column:
"Can we swap 2 and 4? I want to handle the school run before the deploy goes out." — a coworker who can finally be specific
With bullets, that same person has to say: "the deploy one and the kids one", or worse, paste the items back at you. Numbers turn lists into addresses. Bullets are anonymous.
Neither is your grocery list. Number it anyway. You're not ranking the items — you're indexing them, so other humans can point at them. Ordering and indexing are different jobs.
The mental model: if a person might ever say "the second one" about your list, number it.
Use bullets when the list is decorative (a sidebar of features on a marketing page), the items aren't sentences, or there are exactly two and counting them is silly. Everywhere else — meeting agendas, action items, options to choose from, steps, requirements, talking points — number them.
1. at the start of a line.
Slack auto-converts it. Same for Google Docs, Notion, most email clients, and any decent Markdown renderer.